All the life we keep on wasting
Our energy and precious time
It is better to adopt the change
Move ahead in life and stop to complain.
Complaining about the small things that occur in our life is a common problem. Complaining about the food we eat, about the clothes we wear, about the school we study, about the place where we live, about the job we do, about the weather and the list goes on.
The solution lies nowhere and we keep on regretting. But life is never a bed of roses we need to learn acceptance. The root cause of all the problems is we never learn to accept the change around us and are always in a dilemma regarding the facts that are no longer a reality. Moving on in life is very necessary.
We cannot be perfect although but can at least try a few things in life that can help us to improve our habit of complaining.
Some ways to avoid complaining include:-
1. Self-assessment
It is very important to do self-assessment regarding the decisions you make as they become the cause for complaining. For example at a particular point of time, you get a feeling that you should not go out but instead study and one of your friends comes to you don’t hesitate in saying no as later it will become the reason of your complain list within yourself.
2. Self-confidence
When we are confident regarding the decisions we make and are confident towards all the events that are a part of our day to day life there is less of complaining. We need to have a confident approach.
3. Positive attitude
Life is an ongoing process we face many challenges every day and it gives us a new problem in one or the other. So start seeing the positivity in every single action you do. It will give you strength and courage to face every situation. Your confidence levels surely rise with the essence of positivity.
4. Some physical activity
After all the stress and tension we face throughout the day it is a must to perform some activity like going for a walk, going for a gym, practicing yoga, playing the sport of your interest. It will boost your confidence level.
5. Acceptance
It is very necessary to learn the art of acceptance. We have to realize the fact that things cannot go according to our wish. Whatever comes we need to accept it whether good or bad. This attitude will make things easier for us and we will also learn of complaining less.
6. Listen to motivational people
Whatever we perceive we tend to become. So we can take out some time from our busy schedule or while we are in a relaxing state or before sleeping we can listen to some motivational video. This will surely help you become confident day by day.
7. Pen down the thoughts that come to your mind
Our thoughts travel faster than speed and so do they flicker. We have no break towards our thought process. So write down the thoughts that come to your mind. It will help you do understand your loopholes and self-improvement will be easier.
8. Volunteer
Whatever events take place in your school, college, office, home at any level you should actively take part. It will help you to gain confidence. Don’t hesitate to take part or put forward your point anywhere it will also add on to your self-confidence.
