Love is something invincible in this world. It is as alluring as a blossoming flower, first ray of sunshine and the echo of waterfall soothing our ears. It brings charm on gloomy faces and speed to steady lives.
When falling for someone doesn’t feel like falling instead it feels like opening the door and you are home, your favorite place on earth then it’s true love.
True love is an unstoppable rover in the river of life having free flow without boundaries, two persons drowning into each other all comfortably on the basis of compatibility.
How True Love Happens
Falling in love is the most charismatic thing one can come across. Everything feels right and we get the feeling of being on top of the world. And when this feeling turns to true love we find peace, space, and freedom in the first place and vulnerability in other that is our heart becomes vulnerable when it comes to that person. Your partner becomes your weak point and stronger point as well depending upon your level of comfort. Falling in true love brings a sudden affection towards your partner in a much more loving way than before. You will start caring too much about them and they would be able to notice your affection and will appreciate them.
Your fear will fade away. You will tell them every scar you ever had, your fears, phobias, threats, dangers, you will tell them everything if you are truly in love. And they will also response gently instead of overreactions because overreacting often disturbs relationships and sometimes destroys also. You will always be thinking about them if you love your partner truly. You will always think that how this action or that action of yours would affect your partner and how it will change your relationship. You will always think about how can you not take a step which will eventually bring breakup. Yes, breakup, it is never an option in true love. You and your partner will fight, maybe even not talk for days but you will never think about the breakup. Because at some point you will realize it’s your relationship and only you can save it.
Elements of True Love
1: True love have respect that is respect of choices, opinions and taking care of each other’s self-respect because if you truly love him/ her you would never stand in a place where they are not respected.
2: True love have respect. It doesn’t matter it’s a normal relationship or a long distance relationship the most important is that you both completely trust each other. No matter what the situations are indicating or speaking you just need to trust your love.
3: True love always has empathy that means putting yourself into their shoes. Only this would make them comfortable in telling or expressing their problems to you when they will sense comfort. Comfort in which they know you will not take their problems for granted and will try to solve them and if maybe you cannot solve their problems but at least you can give them mental support that is what is most important.
4: When love is true there is always space for forgiveness. Everyone is human and making mistakes is our nature but forgiving for mistakes is the nature of true love. Forgiveness comes with compatibility because only then you will understand why they committed that mistake and only because of compatibility they will be able to accept their mistake in front of you.
5: You will always feel a commitment to true love. There is no space for betrayal in true love. If they have committed for something to you then no matter what boundaries they will cross but if it’s for the sake of your happiness they will complete it because that is what commitment is . ” 8 pm is 8 pm for them no matter how much it takes in traffic!”