It is torturous when a doubt preoccupies a person’s mind. One such common question a girl faces is “does he like me”?
Every moment is uneasy and filled with anxiety when you don’t know how a guy feels about you.
The doubt makes it hard for you to act naturally around him. Instead of pulling petals off the daisy and keeping the mind surrounded by a sea of questions, it is better to find solutions.
The best way out is to talk to him directly. But one may feel awkward, shy and uncomfortable. It might look creepy to him as all this could be your unwanted assumptions. Also, the situation becomes worse if he is your friend and the fear of being rejected stops you. Moreover, this could even ruin the friendship.
It becomes complicated by the fact that men are not good at expressing and it takes a lot of guts for a man to confess his feelings directly. But, reading them through their body language and action isn’t as hard as it might look.
Here are a few irrefutable signs that would help out clear all your doubts on “Does he like me”
Your own intuitions
Intuitions are your gut feeling. It is a whisper from deep within. It is sudden insight, like you having a shiver down your spines as you pick up subtle signal deep within that he likes us. If you are very confident and have a strong feeling, your intuitions would surely guide you and help you decide. Many times, intuitions leave a mixed signal making it hard to decode them.
You are his priority
You are important to him no matter whatever happens. In such a busy life, he will make sure he gives you time. He will not consider you an afterthought. He may sacrifice his commitments to spend time with you. He would fight all odds that comes in your way. His prioritization of being with you and connecting with you is a good sign that he likes you.
He Notices a small detail
If he notices the small details in you, that’s a good sign of interest. Being Interested is the step to liking.
He might have an exceptional recall and might remember most of your details. He would compliment you if not by words, then through eyes no doubt.
You are special to him
A guy who is smitten would do anything to give you a special feeling. He would relish being around you. He would put the best efforts in making every moment spent together memorable.
He will give you special undivided attention and try his best to make your life easy. He might open a car door or offer a chair to sit and surprise you with loads of gifts. You could also notice his ‘I’ becoming ‘US’.
Love is in his eyes
The eye is the mirror of our hearts. Researchers suggest that men who stared at a woman for 8.2 seconds or more were far more likely to feel they had fallen for her. On the opposite side, if a man just looked at the woman for 4.5 seconds or less, he was likely to show no interest in her at all.
Research suggests that the person’s pupil get brightened and dilated when in liking. Eye contact is the best way to show interest. He would stare at you at times with such a level of intensity making your hearts aware of it. He would glance straight into your eyes when you cross each other. His contrasting gazes should be noticeable. The spark in his eyes would say everything.
He is possessive for you
No doubt a guy who is into you would feel possessive about you. His possession could also turn into uncontrolled jealousy.
He might feel jealous for example, when you speak to other guys around. He might have a feeling of insecurity of losing you. His talks and actions would reveal you his jealousy.
Curious about your day-to-day life
Men communicate their interests through focussed attention and listening. You can be sure he is interested in you if he ends up asking many questions about your life and shows curiosity in knowing more and more.
For instance, he might question up about the present, future, etc.
Your interests become his interests
You would see him developing an interest in the activities you perform. He would align his hobbies and interests with you. It would happen consciously or unconsciously as he adores you. You would soon start having shared interest. He would make you realize how similar you both are.
Your all-time problem solver
He would lend a helping hand and sort out all your problems no matter how small or big they are. He would not be afraid and reluctant to go an extra mile out of his ways to give a solution to it.
Shy to ask directly
If your guy is frank, he could directly inquire of your relationship status and try to get your contact number. He could make a comment saying “ Your guy must be lucky to have you” or any question of such kind. If he is the shy types cum decent fellow, he may give few hints. He would keep beating around the bush but would be nervous to ask directly.
Shows his best to you
He is a different guy in your vicinity. You would surely notice a change in his behavior and talks, he being conscious about his appearance and so on. You could see him fidgeting. He might be nervous and impatience.
Adjusts for your happiness
Though adjusting is a tough job, he would happily do it. He would improve himself and wouldn’t repeat any mistakes with you. He would also stop doing things you hate and would sacrifice his happiness for your well being.
Follows you in social media
You could find him following you on social media, he might stalk your pictures, tag you, like or comment. He is keen on finding everything about you.
You are in his imagination
Have you noticed him getting shocked by your sudden presence? Might be his facial expression or so changes. Maybe he is thinking of you? Can’t be sure though.
He might suggest you something unnaturally. Like, he might suggest you wear a white dress telling that it might suit you. He then must surely be imagining you.
Your company is what he wants
He always wishes to be with you and builds up the rapport. He might make plans with you and find reasons to talk to you and be around you. He would seek for personal time – a way of kindling love.
Imitating is regarded as the sincerest act of flattery. To imitate someone is to pay the person a genuine compliment. ‘Mirroring’ or subconsciously copying your body language, gestures, speech patterns, or attitude, is a sign that the person admires and respects you. He is receiving the energy you’re giving off.
For instance, he may imitate the same hand gestures/leg pattern as you or have the same energy level as yours.
He listens out and understands
He gives out his ear to all your long and tiresome stories. He listens out, understands and focusses all attention to you.