The fact that you are reading this article makes it certain that you doubt the loyalty and love of your partner. And you are looking for the right indicators so here I am listing the signs that will tell you whether your partner is cheating or not followed by a list of do’s and don’t’s henceforth.
Signs – Is he Cheating?
- Lack of compassion
If lately your partner is being less compassionate and showing less affecting it may turn out that he is over you and doesn’t want to be with you. You may argue that a busy life and work pressure can turn a person like that but know that it’s not always the case. The one who loves you will show you his compassion for you no matter how busy he is.
- To let go attitude
I have witnessed a lot of people with the letting go attitude when either they don’t want to be in a relationship or are already dating someone else. Every argument results in them trying to break up and never actually finding a solution. The ones who want to stay find a solution rather than pushing you away.
Short term ignorance can be because of a bad mood or a personal issue but long term ignorance is a clear indication that you are unwanted. Often people who cheat are not courageous enough to speak directly hence they change their behavior. Ignorance is no doubt a part of it.
- Lack of communication
Communication is a key element of every relationship. If you too no longer communicate properly and talks often results in fights, you need to take note. And communication should not be one-sided, both of you should be actually into it else know that something is wrong.
- Less efforts
The charm of a relationship fades with time. To not let it fade away efforts are needed from both the ends. If your partner has stopped making any efforts in terms of surprises, gifts or mere flirting that means he is no longer into you or the relationship.
- More excuses
Always know that people who want to be with you, spend time with you will do it and find time no matter how busy he is. If he always makes excuses, cancels plans and is not even guilty about it know that he no longer wants to spend time with you.
- Less healthy talk
By healthy talk, I mean happy hours of conversation where you discuss your dreams, everyday routine, family and friends and both of you feel good. If you notice that healthy talk is vanishing from your conversations, it has become more formal and the other person is simply listening for the sake of listening it assures you that things are not going right between you two.
- Increased arguments
Arguments are necessary for the relationship. They let you know how important the other person is for you. But increased arguments, arguments on everything and every day means your relationship has gone in the wrong direction.
- Less time of togetherness
Notice the amount of time you two spend together. No doubt it reduces after a certain period but if it is gradually decreasing it’s important to take note and be serious about it. Spending time together is important and both of you should be willing enough to spend time together.