How to make friends
In this era of technology
People are so busy with loads of work
There is a need to sit back for a while
To find your old friends and make new ones
And help yourself feel relaxed and calm.
It is rightly said by Aristotle Man is by nature a social animal. We all have some special people in our lives who we refer to as friends. Whenever we feel lonely or are in a difficult situation we have a sense of satisfaction that we have our friends standing as pillars behind us. In our times of joy and happiness, they are the ones who are overjoyed and filled with happiness too.
Life is a long journey and many people come in our lives and go away according to the roles they have in our life. It is important to recognize the right people who fit in our arena of thoughts and stay in our lives without any pressure or personal benefit. The friends that you make should be such who accept you with all your merits and demerits.
I would like to share with you how to make friends:-
- The art of interaction
- Take initiatives
- Start going for activities in a group
- Wait for the response
- Be a patient listener
- Have faith in your choice
- Be natural
- Give time and attention
- Introduce with your family and other friends
- Remember the information about them
- Win their trust
- Share things like music and articles
- Give a good response
- Know your limitations
- Choose your friends wisely
The art of interaction
When you want to make friends it is very important to start a healthy interaction. Always start the interaction with a pleasant smile on your face. Remember if the person has similar thinking patterns the conversation will be a worthy one.
You can further plan a coffee date or a movie with your new companion. Also if you have similar interests like watching any sports match, going for any exhibitions you should go ahead. It will help in knowing each other better.
Start going for activities in a group
If there is any kind of an activity like a yoga class, going to the gym, painting classes, dance classes you should look forward to them as there will be opportunities to find the people alike you in these places.
Wait for the response
All you need to do when you find a suitable person who you think can be a good friend of yours is to start small talks with them. If you get the same response in return it will be a sign of good effort from your side.
Be a patient listener
When we want to be connected with someone it is always a must to listen to what they feel about a particular situation. This helps the other person to feel a satisfaction and a comfort level develops which can help for a good friendship.
Have faith in your choice
It is rightly said that it is all in the mind. If you meet someone during travel or any event and are having similar choices and interests with them don’t always think that the consequence will be unfavorable. When you possess a good and positive thought about someone it will surely come out to be a great choice at the end. You may find a very good friend you have longed for.