We all have been single at some point in our lives. The loneliness bug might affect you even when you are surrounded by your favorite people.
Being single is a state in which someone is not involved in a serious relationship. But I feel that is only partly true because when you are single, you are in a very serious relationship with yourself.
I was in a very serious relationship before I broke up only to realize that I was never asking for too much, I was just asking the wrong person. Probably you felt single because you were not with ‘your’ right person.
These tips will help you to really to get over him, once and for final. Read it, stop weeping and become a 'new' you.
The one issue I find with people who feel lonely is a lack of self-worth. The failed relationship had taught you how well you need to be loved and pampered. A break-up is usually a time of self-introspection and opens your eyes to the things you ignored before. Sometimes, to save a relationship from falling apart, we go to extremes to salvage it. We keep tolerating the worst of behaviors, putting our self-respect at stake and still hoping the relationship to work out. But, if you will not care about yourself darling, then nobody will. Don’t settle for things that you don’t deserve.
Constantly living in the past
Life can be hard sometimes, but going back to the point where you left is not going to help you at all. You have to move forward to a new beginning. Be thankful for everything you have in your life, which keeps you going. Start your day with a smile. Think positive and see how many doors you are going to open for yourself in your life. Remember that if you want to do something even sky is not the limit.
A perfect match
You can’t make a home out of a human being. You only attract the things you are open to. We set up in our minds a perfect image of a person we want as a partner. But, in a world full of uncertainties, how can we expect this to be certain? And when we find that our partner does not fill our expectations, we tend to feel empty. But we often forget that we are human beings and we all have flaws and regardless of them, we deserve to be loved. Coming to that realisation, we must not make the mistake of creating larger-than-life characters out of our loved ones.
Fear of being alone
It’s pretty obvious that after spending such a long time with someone, they become an indispensable part of your life. So, when you have to let them go, you feel shattered. Don’t worry about how things are going to work out. Eventually, they will. You just need to spend some quality time by yourself all alone to understand yourself better and making things work out for yourself. You just have to be positive and open to all what is going to come in your life.
Not coming out of your comfort zone
Neale Donald Walsch said- ‘Life begins at the end of your comfort zone’. It’s never too late for a new start. Your past was just a very important lesson of your life, which was necessary for you to learn. The pain that you were going through in the past few days, months or years was only preparing you for more such people who are going to come into your life. But you did a great job. Believe me! Don’t be so hard on yourself. Once you step outside of your comfort zone, you will spontaneously be open to positive energy. Enjoy your life.