For those of you who thought Love is a fairy-tale, knock-knock! You need to wake up. All the more, love is a concoction of commitment, kindness and straight honesty. It takes time to find your Mr Right or Mrs Perfect. At times you shoot right at your target and most of the times you learn from your experiences when your head bangs saying your mate isn’t good enough for you.
Let me tell you one thing for sure, love is not as charming as it looks, instead, it is a practical and positive approach by everyone who experiences it. So, why doe everyone in the end think that his/her partner is not the one that they wished for? The answer lies within. Love is all about challenges and there is no step by step guide to finding the perfect, Oops! Wrongly phrased, not perfect but the right partner.
Below are some probable whys and wherefores which I consider is the reason for why we are not satisfied with our love decisions. Strictly speaking, this is not a guide to find you a perfect life partner, because nobody’s perfect, but it will definitely lead to Nirvana in love.
1. Great Expectations
Nothing feels good enough. We carry countless expectations from our better halves. Well, there is no harm in making your own list of hopes from him/her. But going overboard like looking out for praises every time, or picking flowers every day etc. It simply means heading towards making your partner perfect for you. We tend to make perfection as a norm, which is a risky recipe for true love.
2. Carrying the Relationship on Your Own Terms
It is high time that you realise that both of you are separate entities. You and your partner are different from each other. You could be positive and negative, yin and yang or sugar and spice. If you are not different than you are clones, which is hard to accept, isn’t it. Not accepting this will definitely make you think that your Mr. Right is actually not right for you.