Picking out a new sex toy can be overwhelming, considering the wide range of options out there. Size, color, target erogenous zones…where does one even begin?
Don’t worry – we’ve done the research so you don’t have to. First off, the best place to start when considering a new sex toy is by figuring out what kind of sex or stimulation you enjoy the most, or considering what may be currently lacking in your sex life. Once you’ve got that figured out, you can more easily pinpoint the toy that’ll scratch that itch best for you…it might even be able to scratch multiple!
Without further ado, let us walk you through our list of the 10 most popular sex toys for women and how you can use them.
Bluetooth Connecting Vibrators
Thank goodness for the rise of technology and smart devices. Now, more than ever, we are all seeking connection. Whether you’re single, in a long-distance relationship, or hooking up with someone over Facetime, a toy with Bluetooth connectivity can do wonders for your sex life.
Plenty of vibrators with Bluetooth connectivity allow you to give control of your toy to someone who is miles away. Their phone becomes a remote control to your pleasure, while your only job is to close your eyes and enjoy the ride, indulging in whatever your long-distance lover has in store for you. Many of these toys even give you the option to save a sequence and use it again later! But don’t think you need a partner to enjoy these – no ma’am, these versatile gadgets can also curate their own patterns designed to please.
Why do we love butt orgasms so much? Probably because they’re so complex, since there are so many nerve endings in and around the anus.
Of course, many people are not comfortable with any forms of butt play, whether it’s for religious reasons, hygienic reasons or simply out of fear of things going awry. However, if you’re even just curious about anal play, a part of you knows how good it can feel to stimulate that sweet spot!
The awesome part about anal vibrators is the amount of versatility involved. When we say that anal vibes come in all shapes and sizes, we truly mean it. Probes, plugs, beads, prostate stimulators…whatever you can conjure up in your wildest fantasies, it likely already exists. If you’re a beginner, you can find a tiny probe no bigger than your pinky finger, while more seasoned players can find stimulators way bigger than that. Anal vibes are great for anal training, or even just as a buzzy alternative to regular sex every once in a while.
We do suggest that you always make sure to use a ton of lube when playing with any anal toys!
Dildos – a beloved classic, for good reason. They come in all shapes and sizes – from 12-inch dongs to satisfy even the pickiest of size queens to girthy hogs designed for those who prefer fullness. From ones that are molded after your favorite porn star’s beloved asset to your choice of circumcised or uncut…there’s truly a dildo out there for everyone who enjoys penetration.
Whether it’s being used handheld for solo masturbation, being worn on a harness by your partner as they penetrate you with it, or suction cupped to the floor as you ride it, you can always find new positions and ways to enjoy your dildo.
Further on the versatility of dildos, if you or your partner have a cum fetish or simply want to add the fun of a squirting dildo into the mix, you totally can – without bringing in a third party!
Just like regular dildos, squirting dildos also come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, so you can browse online to find one to your liking. HotCherry has a great article listing the best rated ejaculating dildos for women.
Wand vibrators are some of the most popular sex toys among women, and their appearance is as the name suggests – they’re generally long and wand-like. They generally have higher RPM’s than regular vibrators, and are also extremely versatile. Not only can they be used for clitoral or nipple stimulation, but they can even be used for massaging the back or shoulders, or even as a fun and unique teasing tool.
Calling all lovers of oral: clitoral suction toys may just be your toy box must-have. The way they work is by using air pressure to mimic the action of sucking. So, if you crave the feeling of a tongue twisting around your clitoris over the sensations of a classic clitoris vibe, these could be for you.
If anal play is your cup of tea, anal plugs are a must-have. Jeweled butt plugs are the most delicious accessories to sport when you want to put on a sexy strip tease or surprise your partner with a peep show. Butt plugs in general are ideal for slipping in when you want to add some pep in your step during a particularly tedious day – if you choose one with a flared base for easy retrieval, you can slip it in during your work-from-home workday or sport it while doing the dishes. The added pleasure is sure to make your day that much better, and it’s the perfect foreplay if you want to get in the mood for some more pleasure later!
Rabbit vibrators combine the best of both worlds – an external vibrator shaped like bunny ears that provide clitoral stimulation and an internal G-spot stimulator that targets your inner sweet spots. These are great for those who want to experience blended orgasms, or simply want to get the most out of one single toy.
If you’ve ever had an A-spot orgasm, you know how powerful and intoxicating these orgasms can be. For those who don’t know, the A-spot, otherwise known as the anterior fornix is an erogenous zone located about two inches deeper than the G-spot – hard to reach with fingers alone. A-spot toys are great for reaching that coveted ‘deep spot’.
Let’s go back to the basics: thanks to their expertly positioned bump and slight curve, G-spot toys are solid staples to have in your toy drawer. These orgasms never go out of style.